@questionWeaver wow you date wives?? And you somehow connect with men on a regular basis that want you to hang out with their wives you lead a highly unusual life!

@REMsleep i was young, fun, trusted . . . And the guys were older, self-indulged and frankly not all that smart.

I worked with some and played in a softball league with others

The wives were young, yearning, bored and just wanted some handsome company.

I was just making friends ... it became a game as to which wife would sneak a kiss with me next

I did not sleep with all of them

I skiied a lot, intent on winning some semi-pro racing belt buckles

I made good company skiing

I was attentive, making sure the ladies were dressed right, had the right equipment and were at ski school at the right time ... I usually showed up at the ski lodge, for drinks, in a plume of snow.

And my "date" wife enjoyed the eye candy ... others appeared envious.

I will say, these ladies were easy to fall for ... which kinda messed me up ... creating an odd defensive mechanism in me.

And this allure / trust continued through the years.

I promised Soossie I would not do it anymore!