He doesn’t trust me cause his ex was a liar?

I hate when someone takes out things they ex did on the next person they talk to. I think imma distance myself from this guy cause he going joke around about my whereabouts last night like I was lieing and then tell me hates lairs so I screens shot my work time in and out to prove I wasn’t lieing. But I might have to cut him off cause I don’t feel like explaining how this can lead to horrible behavior: me constantly having to prove myself and I really liked him too he was good looking nice and I was very attracted but idk about always proving I’m not lieing.

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MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M

I can tell you from first hand experience that if they have a hang up from another relationship it'll be hard to get them to break it. My experience wasn't about lies, but about her ex was a drug addict that would pawn her things to get money for drugs. I have never done them and never pawned anything of mine, let alone stealing from someone else. But every time something would be misplaced, she'd accuse me, then find it later that day or the next. Never once apologizing for the false accusations. This went on and off for years. I just thought it would stop at some point. It didn't.

Being away from that has made things so much better. If you can't talk to him and get him to stop, it probably won't stop at all. Joking or not, it's still going to eat at you.