Facebook declarations of love
What do you think when a guy says to a woman (on facebook) 'Jane, I absolutely adore you.' With a photo of them both?
36-40, M
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JupiterDreams · 31-35
@JupiterDreams not posting things most people don't care about. You just explained why there's no need for social media to exist.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@SooperSarah I think that'd be for the best tbh...
@JupiterDreams agreed
BluePlanet · 36-40, M
@HootyTheNightOwl What do you mean?
@BluePlanet Saying "I love you" means nothing if she's on her own in other ways. This is something that I'm struggling with myself. I'm trying to be there for him - and all I have is "I love you" - to the point where it's starting to feel a little repetitive the more I say it.
I can hardly rock up on his doorstep with his favorite meal... so I have to wait for him to open up in his own time. At least, I am trying my best to make myself available and be there if and when he needs to talk to someone.
Though "I love you" is nice to hear, for me, love is in those little acts that you can preform that you don't get back... spending time with him, making yourself available to him, being there to try to cheer him up, things like that.
I can hardly rock up on his doorstep with his favorite meal... so I have to wait for him to open up in his own time. At least, I am trying my best to make myself available and be there if and when he needs to talk to someone.
Though "I love you" is nice to hear, for me, love is in those little acts that you can preform that you don't get back... spending time with him, making yourself available to him, being there to try to cheer him up, things like that.
Johnblackthorn · 56-60, M
BluePlanet · 36-40, M
@Johnblackthorn So you believe it is insecurity?
Johnblackthorn · 56-60, M
@BluePlanet yes more than immaturity.
MarmeeMarch · M
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I assume they are in a relationship so he's either too sentimental or feels guilty and wants to smooth something out. But my first thought is always that deep inside he's not sure about his feelings and he tries to confirm it to himself by openly demonstrating it again and again. He might have doubts if he made the right decision that he ended up with this person so perhaps he needs to constantly reconfirm it.
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
NeloAngelo · 26-30, M
if there friends already it can be cute. if there strangers its creepy.
one thing i found really unnerving is after meeting recently and just going on one or two dates and then seeing immediate posts declaring that your the "love of there life" or "can't imagine life without you"
one thing i found really unnerving is after meeting recently and just going on one or two dates and then seeing immediate posts declaring that your the "love of there life" or "can't imagine life without you"
Magenta · F
Yikes. If it's true, he doesn't need to announce it or try so hard to prove it to anyone but her.
I wouldnt notice but i guess It's fine if he's married to her
Zonuss · 41-45, M
There is usually something wrong. 🙂
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
He thinks the two in the photo are awesome