My boyfriend complains so much. It’s in a fussy almost child-like sort of way. I swear he wasn’t like this before and this is a new “thing” that came

Out of nowhere, like he’s let a guard down or something. It’s annoying though and I don’t know how to talk to him to get him to stop. He’s fine otherwise. What do I do!?

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SW-User

Give him a hug

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@SW-User Yeah, encourage him to whine even more.

SW-User

@SW-User Sure. Just like you often do

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@SW-User I was just about to say yeah that crap don't work.

SW-User

@SW-User I don't whine. Maybe if you hugged me more often.

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@REMsleep Crap you say?
💩
How so?
If it's a "new" thing as she says
then he might indeed be going thru a rough time and need some emotional support
And since they're in a relationship it's nbd

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@SW-User Nah coddling people that lash out and complain every 5 minutes usually reenforces whiney self absorbed results imho.

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@REMsleep It depends
It could be all they need or not
You can't tell until you try
Hugs are free y'know