I hate that my friends and family act weird that my new boyfriend is 20 years older then me...

Meh I'd just go on with your life as normal, family pressures will cause tension between you two eventually if they get to you.

I would let them make their own choice of being in my life or not. They'll have to accept it eventually, you're 27 and it really isn't that weird to date someone older than you.

You're a grown adult capable of making your own good decisions. I hope your family and friends can learn to respect that. It's not like you're barely legal and dating someone twice your age.

I hope it all works out. 🙂

age is just a number

it matters less with more age, but 30 to 50 [you to him in a couple years.. so now even moreso]
is non-trivial. hope it works well for you

It may not matter at the moment, but there may come a time when it will. Be happy together but think about the future as well 🤗

It really shouldnt matter to them, you're an adult & able to judge for yourself.

They just want the best for you and are picturing you changing big diapers in a few years.

There is nothing wrong in an age gap relationship.it is not weird.go head

Ummmm... How long do you expect this relationship to last

Give them some time to adjust it’s not what they might expect

Gives them something to talk about

Perhaps they’ll relax as they get to know him. If he’s a new guy in your life and so much older, of course they’re going to worry at first.