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Do you like it when the person you are in a relationship with becomes possessive of you? I do because I feel as if they want me all for themselves.

I mean it's kind of flattering.
NO. I want to someone like me for me. That’s not flattering. That’s possessive.
SammyJo · 51-55, F
Hmmmmm...depends. Possessive can easily change into paranoia/jealousy....
To an extent but it can easily become a problem too
Celt43 · 46-50, M
It soon loses its charm, even if cute at first
SW-User
I used to be possessive. I hated it
Laralemonsqueeze · 36-40, F
@SW-User why?
SW-User
@Laralemonsqueeze Because it consumes you. you don't own people, you're equal..when you start to dominate them, to stop them from doing things they want to do, to question their every move...it's horrible and more likely to drive them in to the arms of another.
4meAndyou · F
You can not own another person. Possessiveness means that the person with whom you are in a relationship sees you as an object they can own, not as a human being with feelings and freedoms. It may feel good, to someone who has low self esteem, but it is a red flag.
SW-User
I’ve never been with someone possessive so I wouldn’t know. But there’re some dark types of possessiveness,I think wouldn’t like that.
SW-User
Ugh no I don’t do smothering .... I need my own personal space it if gets too much all the time
Nope.

We just belong together; no one else could ever be a better match.
SW-User

 
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