What do you think about this?

My girlfriend is 20 and I'm 37 but I met her when she was 19
Do you find it creepy when someone who falls for a younger teenager and waits for them too reach legal age?
Here's an example https://mobile.twitter.com/channel5_tv/status/1132618639352377344

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Miram · 31-35, F

20 is still pretty young. I personally would wait until they are in mid 20s to do anything of sexual nature.

They are just not experienced enough to handle the responsibilities that comes with relationships and the risks or to evaluate them.

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Wanrich5 · 41-45, M

@Miram I had a heart op when i was a baby it must of messed up my brain with a lack of oxygen

Miram · 31-35, F

@Wanrich5

True, cerebral damage can occur with heart surgeries but you'd be surprised how much can be done to improve it with the right treatment.

You should certainly see a professional 🌹.

You have to keep at mind that no matter how young the woman you're dating , her abilities and needs will change. She won't always match yours and because of that age can't be treated as an advantage. It's not. Also no matter how old you personally think you are mentally, doesn't mean you're not in position where you'd dis-empower her.

It is good that you are waiting for her instead of pressuring into doing things she is not comfortable with. She's pretty young in my opinion.

Wanrich5 · 41-45, M

@Miram even if it doesn't work out, we will be best friends.

MorbidCynic · F

I feel like if you meet them and specifically wait for them to become legal, that is rather too close to grooming and suspicious.

You have to also considering the psychological aspects, especially if she likes the “daddy” thing. She may have some mental issues.

She is still rather young, still with an undeveloped brain and significantly less life experience. That will play a major roll in the power dynamic.

But since my dad is 17 years older than me. The age gap seems gross 😅

I just feel like there is no room for a younger person to grow with someone that much older.

KimWexler · 51-55, F

First, there is no way in hell the man in the video is three years younger than I am. Or maybe there's no way I look 50. Moving on...

Second, there are usually two reasons why a young woman couples up with an older man: money and the father issues.
20 and 37 weird, but you're both adults. Your relationship is no one's business but yours. A word of warning: when she matures, when she figures out who she is, you'll be history.

Miram · 31-35, F

Well, I just did little more digging about the video you posted.

It looks like he was grooming her way before it was even legal. And he was married, she was his baby sitter.

His ex wife claims that he was attracted to her too when she was younger and he left another partner before her due to their age.

So apparently he targets young girls. This is absolutely not healthy.

MalcolmY

Its called grooming and its creepy as fuck dude.

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MalcolmY

@Wanrich5 nah man. You aint magically off the hook cuz the clock struck 18.

Wanrich5 · 41-45, M

@MalcolmY can you get off your high horse please, by your logic Rodd Stewart would be in the same boat since his wife is quite a bit few years younger

MalcolmY

@Wanrich5 yes he is

Wanrich5 · 41-45, M

Just an update:
Me and Hien have decided to break up, but we are staying in contact.
She's still very important in my life as one of my best friends

Wanrich5 · 41-45, M

I told her I will wait till she's ready, she's Australian too, she likes a 'daddy' but she isn't a spoilt rich girl

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

I think many people are creepy and its not based on age.

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