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I’m confused...

Last night my boyfriend admitted to being a narcissistic abuser but said it so nonchalantly that I wasn’t sure he cared.
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BlueVeins · 22-25
PLEASE CUT TIES
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
I considered that but I can’t get rid of all the pictures and go back to looking single all the time . I like being in a cute relationship.@BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly Yes you can. This isn't cute, it's scary and awful.
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
But everyone else thinks it’s cute . Regardless, I can’t get rid of the pictures so I can’t get rid of the relationship @BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly Do you not own a trash can?
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
I do but it would hurt too much to see so many good memories go away @BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly You're always telling me about all the emotional pain he inflicts on you. It's not gonna get better, you need to cut your losses. ❤️ I'm sorry.
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
Guess I’ll just go out and get a cat 😭😭😭@BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly How 'bout if I just send you pictures of mine? 🥺
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
No im goin get to die alone and the cat will eat me because that’s what happens. It’s official I’m crying in bed all day@BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly Hey, you'll at least have that guy on FaceBook, right? Maybe you can hit it off with him. You'll find a good man one of these days.
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
No if my boyfriend leaves me I’m done and I want to cry and all of you useful people need to leave useless me alone and stop acting like you understand @BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
Come on, you have more of a place in the world than I do, @antisocialbutterfly. You're out there raising the next generation and giving all these kids a future. People like you are soooo important. Besides, you can still flirt with everyone and their mom on this website until you find a better guy to smooch and it'd still be better than your current situation.
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
No it won’t because I’ll never get married because I’m running out of time to earn it in a new relationship @BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly For fuck's sake, your 21. You have soooo much time to grow as a person and start a beautiful relationship. And it'll be so much easier when you're independent and don't have to worry so much about all these people sucking up your energy.
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
You don’t understand how I feel . Nobody does. I’m already having a bad day . Why make it worse? Not bad enough that I’m already crying? Huh? @BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly Perhaps it's fundamentally impossible to really understand how someone else feels, but it's plainly obvious, here and now, that you're selling yourself short. I know that it hurts and I care about you, but you've got to save yourself here. You have a duty to protect yourself from abusive shitheads.
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
You’re the one upsetting me right now . @BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly I know, but I'm worried about you. This guy's put you through so muuch pain. You're a sweet person, you shouldn't deal with this.
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
I’m waiting on my reward. I don’t have it in me to do this all over again to get married @BlueVeins
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@antisocialbutterfly sweetheart marriage isn't a reward always, it can be a sweet dream or a nightmare
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly Well, you're gonna be waiting a long, long time for that. And if he's not good to you now, I doubt he's gonna be any better.
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
I can earn his love . I deserve love . I’ve been abused by guys for five years now. Got molested . Got totally controlled by one guy . Now I get my money taken and I get verbally abused . But guess what ? I’ve more than earned happiness. I’ve had 4 abusive relationships. Now it’s my time so my boyfriend will understand and just be a little nicer@BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly No you can't, not from this guy. You don't need a little nicer than manipulation and molestation, you need a lot bit nicer. You're kidding yourself here. Come on, you know what you've got to do.
antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F
You just don’t understand how useless I am @BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly You're a lot more useful than me, that's for sure.