I’m confused...

Last night my boyfriend admitted to being a narcissistic abuser but said it so nonchalantly that I wasn’t sure he cared.

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SW-User

Kiddo, that's what we call a red flag.

antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F

But I have to stay so it doesn’t really matter @SW-User

SW-User

@antisocialbutterfly why?

antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F

Because everyone thinks we’re a cute couple and I could never get rid of the pictures @SW-User

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@antisocialbutterfly those aren't reasons to live a miserable life for the rest of your life, those things only get worse and worse over time

antisocialbutterfly · 26-30, F

No but if I leave him I’ll die alone @th3r0n

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@antisocialbutterfly why? What about you makes you undesirable??

NerdyPotato · M

@antisocialbutterfly I agree with th3ron. What others think is not important and there is nothing cute about him driving you to self-harm. And you don't have to get rid of the pictures when you break up. It's perfectly fine to hold on to memories of the good times without putting yourself in danger by staying together.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@NerdyPotato wise words well said