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Should I respond to my “ex?”

So, I was talking to a guy I had met on Facebook dating. We hit it off, had FaceTimed for weeks, met up, and started essentially going on dates. We both discussed it and came to a mutual agreement that we weren’t going to label it or say we were in a relationship. After spending time with him over a few weeks, I got to the point where I realized it wasn’t going to work out. I told him I’d like to stay friends, and he started saying how much I’d help him grow as a person and that if I was going to be his friend he needed to know that he was self harming. (He told me this as soon as I told him it wasn’t working, not when we were basically dating.) I talked to my friend about it, and she told me that he was using me and trying to guilt me into being with him. He also has a habit of bringing up my insecurities and joking about things and pushing my boundaries. (There had been other instances of him doing this too.) I told him that due to my own personal issues (being where he has been in the past with my own issues and learning that I tended to use people) that remaining friends wouldn’t be the best thing for me, or even for him. I ended up blocking him on everything. Two weeks later, he created another Facebook account just so he could message me asking to talk. I blocked him, but now I’m wondering if I should’ve heard him out and see what he had to say. What should I do?
Threepio Best Comment

Kinda says it all....
@Threepio Thanks for the BA...

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Forget it. This is not good for you. Keep him blocked and out of your life.
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Extant1 · M
Block again
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Whew. I'm way too old for all of that. Girl life is too short, next..... Too many issues
SW-User
Too much drama
sabrinarose · 22-25, F
@SW-User That doesn’t answer my question tho lol
SW-User
@sabrinarose oh right people can’t read my mind.
Just keep him gone... you’ll end up having to teach him how to live life and you shouldn’t have to do that.
sabrinarose · 22-25, F
@SW-User thank you

 
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