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Am I overreacting

My man and I don't have a place of our own and he lives with family and so do I so we are not able to ever stay the whole night together unless we get a hotel room. We use to stay at hotel rooms but it's been months now that we haven't because of the lockdown but now that hotels are open I thought it would be nice for us to stay the night together when I asked him if he wanted to he said. He had to think about it I even offered to pay for half the room .I am upset because I would have thought he would have jumped at the chance to spend the night together. I was so upset that I told him to forget it I don't want to do it anymore you killed the happy vibe .Than he said to me like he always Says to me .Dont start Your non-sense.I am not playing your games anymore all the stupid things you text me just keep running your mouth of yours I won't be putting up with it. For to much longer Just giving you a heads up , when you're crying because I'm gone , remember that big mouth of yours was the reason.
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Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
Maybe if you had thought to ask what was on his mind when you didn't get the answer you expected. Maybe there was something bothering him that he needed to work through and you getting snippy because you didn't get the response you expected was enough to trip his trigger. I am not saying that his response was any better or right but I see more here than him just deciding he has had enough.
daydeeo · 61-69, M
@Roadsterrider look at her previous posts. The guy's playing her
@Roadsterrider then maybe he should have said it!

Communication is key - no-one is a mind reader!
Just sayin 🤷‍♀️
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
@OogieBoogie My wife is rather insensitive, at some point trying to communicate gets old, it is just another step in being frustrated. Her response is much like one my wife would make, "Oh, you aren't interested in my spur of the moment idea, well screw you then." Maybe it is time for both of them to call it quits.
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
@daydeeo Maybe he is playing her, that doesn't mean that they both couldn't practice better communication.
@Roadsterrider okaaaaay.

Seems because you can relate to this -Ypure interpretation is different.
Even then... The result is the same.