Why do other women hate me so much ?

I’m kind but I am quiet but when I see my neighbor I speak. I actually held a few short convos with her. Since summer is my favorite time of the year I went outside and decorated my porch. My door was open last night and she told another neighbor that I decorated my porch because she put 1 plant outside. Why would my decorated porch compare to her dusty side with 1 plant is beyond me. I’m almost 30 and I have been dealing with this envious jealousy from every female I know. The sad part is this lady told me her husband lost his job right before the pandemic and I was going to leave money and water at her door but now I don’t want too. I already stay to myself but dealing with this mean girl behavior from so many women makes me want to stay to myself even more. I was thinking of confronting the woman but I would rather not. I’m actually a really nice and caring person but for some reason other women side eye me and glare at me all my life.