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Do bullies remember the people they bullied years later as a adult?

I was bullied really bad in Highschool someone made up a rumor that I was pregnant. Girl would try to beat me up and a guy acted like he liked me but on the last day of school he quit talking to me and told me everyone in the whole school thought I was weird. I’m just happy I made it I didn’t even think of hurting my selfing or ending my life I just was so strong in Highschool and idk how. It’s like I was stronger as a teenager than I was in my 20s. I’m watching a show on Netflix called 13 reasons why about a girl who was bullied in Highschool and I just wonder with all these anti bullying shows and promotions out now do my bullies remember me. ? After Highschool and into my 20s I started to come out my shell but I feel into a deep depression I still saw the girl in Highschool for a very long time. I even lost a lot of people that loved me for me because I couldn’t let go. I waited until after Highschool to deal with the abuse at home and school so I spent my 20s acting stupid and doing all the things maybe kids in Highschool got out their system. I also spent a lot of money on better clothes and things I couldn’t afford in Highschool. I am almost 30 and now I’m clean of depression and now I’m cleaning up the mess that was left from the depression.
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Gusman · 61-69, M
I am sure they do remember.
But if one was to confront them years later, the vast majority of them would say, "I was a different person back then and I am very sorry for what I put you through."
For a while I had this idea of going back to my old home town and confronting all those people who bullied me.
I would go to their house to confront them, then blow their heads off.
Bullies are arseholes.
Lexiitexii · 31-35, F
You know what’s crazy I just moved back to my home town. The town I went to school in and was bullied in I didn’t see anyone I know either. I been here since last August @Gusman
Gusman · 61-69, M
@Lexiitexii I suppose most people leave their home town to go out and see the world.
Most. Not all. I know there are some people who never leave the place where they were born.
Born in that small town, die in that small town.