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The biggest most stressful thing in my life right now is my boyfriend's 11 year old son 馃槶

I do t think I have ever been this stressed out for this long in my life . I feel like I just let my worst enemy into my home 馃槶. He is the worst and make things even harder his bad attitude and behavior has been rubbing off on my kids 馃槶 who are a 3 and 5 year old little girls . I have been so stressed and annoyed for so long now without feeling like I can have a day of happiness. Sometimes I just wish I had a bunch of money so I can disappear and then I feel more upset because I cant believe I am so stressed and sad that I want to leave my kids behind for a little while 馃槶.

On top of it I feel like I have to constantly be on guard because the kid was accused of humping his friends little sister . The boys both accused each other but I don't believe either of them they both have holes in there stores and I believe they both need exactly what they where doing together.

I just need some positive in my week right now and some stress free days 馃様馃槪馃様
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Mamapolo2016F
When I was 28, my stepsons. 12 and 17, moved in with us. I thought I'd died and gone to hell.

My husband would not control them because he was afraid they'd move back with their mom.

My opinion is that if your BF will not consistently support you and control his son, you need to move out or ask them to leave. I was lucky because at that time I didn't have a child.

If you want to stay, insist on family counseling. It may help.
SpoiledbratF
I think it鈥檚 better coming from dad. I agree. @Mamapolo2016
Mamapolo2016F
@Spoiledbrat It's a very tricky situation, and she is in a position where her stepson could accuse her of things that would get her arrested.
SpoiledbratF
馃槼 oh

Im sorry to hear that. @Mamapolo2016
Mamapolo2016F
@Spoiledbrat I didn't get arrested, the boys were bigger than I was. We were way past the point where spanking would have been effective anyway.

But it can and does happen.