The biggest most stressful thing in my life right now is my boyfriend's 11 year old son 😭

I do t think I have ever been this stressed out for this long in my life . I feel like I just let my worst enemy into my home 😭. He is the worst and make things even harder his bad attitude and behavior has been rubbing off on my kids 😭 who are a 3 and 5 year old little girls . I have been so stressed and annoyed for so long now without feeling like I can have a day of happiness. Sometimes I just wish I had a bunch of money so I can disappear and then I feel more upset because I cant believe I am so stressed and sad that I want to leave my kids behind for a little while 😭.

On top of it I feel like I have to constantly be on guard because the kid was accused of humping his friends little sister . The boys both accused each other but I don't believe either of them they both have holes in there stores and I believe they both need exactly what they where doing together.

I just need some positive in my week right now and some stress free days 😔😣😔

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

I cannot imagine your life right now.
One of three things must happen.
1. Your stepson gets therapy.
2. You get training on how to cope in a hostile environment.
3. Your stepson gets kicked out after turning 18.

Your biggest challenge is keeping your 3 and 5 year olds safe. They gotta be feeling as stressed as you are if not more so. Yikes!

Maybe consider having the children live with their father until your home becomes more harmonious. They are your number 1 priority. Right?

Stray4life · 26-30, F

@SimplyTracie they always are my priority. I mostly feel like they have been picking up on his bad behavior and now I have to correct it at the same time they are seeing his behavior is not being corrected.
My kid's father is not in the picture right now . My girls are my boyfriend are close he cares for them like they are his own and I think his son is jealous of them and me when he doesn't have all his dad's attention.