The biggest most stressful thing in my life right now is my boyfriend's 11 year old son 😭

I do t think I have ever been this stressed out for this long in my life . I feel like I just let my worst enemy into my home 😭. He is the worst and make things even harder his bad attitude and behavior has been rubbing off on my kids 😭 who are a 3 and 5 year old little girls . I have been so stressed and annoyed for so long now without feeling like I can have a day of happiness. Sometimes I just wish I had a bunch of money so I can disappear and then I feel more upset because I cant believe I am so stressed and sad that I want to leave my kids behind for a little while 😭.

On top of it I feel like I have to constantly be on guard because the kid was accused of humping his friends little sister . The boys both accused each other but I don't believe either of them they both have holes in there stores and I believe they both need exactly what they where doing together.

I just need some positive in my week right now and some stress free days 😔😣😔

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SW-User

Yikes .
.try talking this out to see if some other things to be done to help the situation

Stray4life · 31-35, F

@SW-User we have talked a lot he just wants to be a jerk and wants it to be just him and his dad . Ik he's only 11 and kids his age are kinda selfish but it's really like he doesn't care about his dad's happiness

SW-User

@Stray4life my son is 12. Please bare in mind he is most likely going through a lot of changes ,not just with this living situation but physiologically too. He probably does care but he may not be able to articulate it properly . Many kids ,especially boys have a harder time with this . Just something to keep in mind .