Can't help but feel jealous

My wife and I separated back in April 2018. I met someone incredible just months later. She is older than me by 14 years and is a widow. Her husband died in November 2016.
I know she loves me deeply and always will but sometimes it's a hard on days like today when it would have been his birthday and she is hearting all the posts on Facebook about how he was the loveliest man ever and hearting all the photos people have put up of him. Am I being unreasonable? It's just so hard

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DarkHeaven ·

This was a post I created here to say goodbye to my ex that I loved dearly. It’s not something he could read because it was years ago but I didn’t have proper closure at the time. He will always have a special place in my past and my heart but this was part of me, moving on. I have a girlfriend now that I’ve been with for just three months and I’ve fallen faster and harder than I ever knew possible and love her more than I understood you even could love a person. I still have a love for J. I’m not at all in love with him and no longer want him back at all like that as well my love that I have for him as a person in no way removes a single bit of love I have for her. She’s my absolute world and I would crumble without her. I hope my explanation of me helps you understand her a little.

https://similarworlds.com/32-Personal-Thoughts-Feelings/1845000-A-letter-to-my-J-My-sweetest-love-I-never-truly