What is it about being dominated

I understand it being a bedroom think if that’s your gig. I met a girl that likes to be dominated and controlled all the time, does this mean she’s given up her identity 🤷‍♀️

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Soramarie · 26-30, F

No. I love in a sub Dom relationship by choice. So it's really craving structure, guidence, and discipline. It's not all about sex. It's effective for people who aren't confident in their ability to navigate this world without a guiding hand

ChloeYoung · 22-25, F

@Soramarie I see, the girl I know sounds really confident and I was surprised to hear this about her. I’m glad I asked the question now, it’s helped me to understand 🙂

Soramarie · 26-30, F

@ChloeYoung for me I have a lot of fear because of.situations I've unfortunately been in. So the strict guidence helps me know and stay connected

ChloeYoung · 22-25, F

@Soramarie So it is your coping mechanism cause of a bad life experience. That’s interesting, thank you for sharing

Soramarie · 26-30, F

@ChloeYoung essentially. It is for a lot of others ik too. I was stalked and almost killed. The world is scary and without structure I panic