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What is it about being dominated

I understand it being a bedroom think if that’s your gig. I met a girl that likes to be dominated and controlled all the time, does this mean she’s given up her identity 🤷‍♀️
Soramarie · 26-30, F
No. I love in a sub Dom relationship by choice. So it's really craving structure, guidence, and discipline. It's not all about sex. It's effective for people who aren't confident in their ability to navigate this world without a guiding hand
Soramarie · 26-30, F
@ChloeYoung for me I have a lot of fear because of.situations I've unfortunately been in. So the strict guidence helps me know and stay connected
ChloeYoung · 22-25, F
@Soramarie So it is your coping mechanism cause of a bad life experience. That’s interesting, thank you for sharing
Soramarie · 26-30, F
@ChloeYoung essentially. It is for a lot of others ik too. I was stalked and almost killed. The world is scary and without structure I panic
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
People do some crazy stuff to avoid loneliness. And people find all kinds of behavior sexy.
People are hard to figure out.

I tend to think that anything that is done without coercion, voluntarily for both people, is OK.
ChloeYoung · 22-25, F
@greenmountaingal It would be sad to think they do it out of loneliness. I think that means they have sacrificed their identity for companionship
Not necessarily. Truly submissive people can still stand up for themselves and defend themselves against others. Real submission is a gift they give to someone they trust and care about.

Just as being a Dominant does necessarily mean you are an abusive tyrant all the time. It means we guide, teach and care for those who submit to us.

It's not for everyone, I respect that. I just more people truly understood what it's about before jumping in.
ChloeYoung · 22-25, F
@PrivateHell Ok, thanks for your answer. I wouldn’t judge anyone cause I have no right to, I’m just curious
ninjavu · 51-55, M
I don't think so. I know some couples if D/s relationships (M/f and F/m) and it seems to be what they truly want. 🤷‍♂️ I'm happy they're happy.
ChloeYoung · 22-25, F
@ninjavu Yeah I agree, they’re happy and not hurting anyone else
ninjavu · 51-55, M
@ChloeYoung Exactly. :)
Rangoli · 22-25, M
It's good for health and wealth.. go go continue.. ChloeYoung
ChloeYoung · 22-25, F
@Rangoli Ooooooookay, thanks 😊
ChloeVSCO · 22-25, F
It seems her identity is to be dominated
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ChloeYoung · 22-25, F
@DaddyMentor It sure was and it was very sad, not to mention she probably employed people that are now out of work
SW-User
It's like the person wants to make you a slave in the bedroom. Some people find it sexy.
I would say it’s not just a bedroom thing.
ChloeYoung · 22-25, F
@skygazer For this girl it’s obviously not
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
I don’t understand it either
Self-loathing is the only thing I can imagine. 🤔

 
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