My boyfriends doesn't have any hobbies except smoking weed

Before (like when we met 4 years ago), he did lots of sports and had many friends, the past 1-2 years all he's doing is spending his weekends with his 2 roommates and smoking weed on the balcony; or going to some club (not often), then stands in the corner, just smoking... He doesn't have any friends in the office anymore and is not interested to meet anyone new.
It has become much worse since corona, he should be doing home-office but he said he can't work from home and is going out smoking every day multiple times. His company will stay closed till december.
He turned 30 this year, I'm 26. His roommates are 24 and 25.

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

His problems are serious. He could try counseling but it doesn't seem as if he is motivated to change. He is not taking care of himself; if you stick around, that will become your task. I'd recommend dropping him and moving on. He doesn't have a life and doesn't want one. If you do, you're going to have to move on.

PhoebeJ · 31-35, F

@greenmountaingal He gets angry at me and feels "forced into making serious decisions he's not prepared doing"...

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@PhoebeJ That is not an answer, just a warning to you that if you keep "pushing" him, you will lose him. Why not just end this relationship ? It's not going anywhere, believe me.