Can someone give me an idea what the hell is wrong with my husband??

In the course of a marriage the "participants" will no doubt discuss very important issues. My problem is we can discuss an important issue, decide how to handle it & by the next day he doesn't even remember the discussion! He's in his 70's is this dementia???
Thanks for any light you can shed!

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SW-User

could be... but might not be. confusion along with forgetfulness is more of clue to that, but i'd consult a doc, because there are many types of dementia, some of them due to a simple nutritional deficiency. note whether or not he's clearer in the morning versus the evenings. see that he's staying hydrated, because that can exacerbate dementia, and forgetful people often forget to drink enough water. maybe make a daily journal tracking his memory performance.

EnjoyingLife · 61-69, F

@SW-User You're right he is not a big water drinker & will not do it when I suggest it! All of his joints have been replaced & I believe it's due to not drinking water. I've always been a big water drinker, 3 yrs older than him & NO JOINT ISSUES AT ALL!!

SW-User

@EnjoyingLife unfortunately, it becomes even more important to take good care of ourselves as we age. maybe you could find a water-based drink that is alcohol and caffeine-free to trick him into consuming more water? you're smart. i'm sure you can come up with something.

EnjoyingLife · 61-69, F

@SW-User Very good advice but unfortunately He NEVER listens to me. I suggest to him.....instead of taking the entire bag of potato chips in front of the tv, just put a handful in a napkin.....he still takes the entire bag & usually eats most of it at one sitting! I believe some of his problems are dietary but again he won't listen to me so I've had to give up.
I really appreciate all the insight from other SW members!!

SW-User

@EnjoyingLife well, i hope you'll still keep enjoying life, no matter what he chooses to do. :)