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NineLives · 41-45, F
I have no problems with age gaps myself. I definitely love older men which is why my hubby is 9 years older than me.
I do have a problem if someone is old enough to be someone's parent or grandparent though. I can NOT get past the creepy factor of that. It seems so unnatural and wrong to me.
Also I do believe that things might seem fun and fine at first in a large age gap relationship, but eventually the age gap will ruin the love. What kind of 35 year old wants to be taking care of their 75 year old spouse? It will be then when the regrets will set in and they will feel trapped, instead of loved.
I do have a problem if someone is old enough to be someone's parent or grandparent though. I can NOT get past the creepy factor of that. It seems so unnatural and wrong to me.
Also I do believe that things might seem fun and fine at first in a large age gap relationship, but eventually the age gap will ruin the love. What kind of 35 year old wants to be taking care of their 75 year old spouse? It will be then when the regrets will set in and they will feel trapped, instead of loved.