Is it normal for her to want to talk to me constantly?

I love my fiancée very much, but she wants to talk to me literally 24/7. She texts me all day and gets upset when I don’t reply quickly and she calls me maybe six times per day. Every time she wants to stay on the phone even when we don’t have anything to talk about and it’s silent and then when so say “okay well i’ll talk to you later” she gets defensive. It wasn’t always like this and I am losing it. I love her but I need my alone time to be my time. I’ve told her this and it clicks for a few days but then it always ends up back here. I’m tired.

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Do you want to get married?

Lex22 · 26-30, M

@SW-User I used to. I’m not sure anymore because I feel like i’m being suffocated.

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Relationships move in cycles..
Is she younger than you?@Lex22

Lex22 · 26-30, M

@SW-User She’s a year older

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What type of work does she do?@Lex22

If you don’t mind the question

Lex22 · 26-30, M

@SW-User She’s working in a store right now while she’s in school.

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@Lex22

I used to. I’m not sure anymore because I feel like i’m being suffocated.

If you've spoken to her about it and she hasn't adjusted her actions, it's not going to get any better unless she gets therapy/help for it. She's showing an insecurity that shouldn't exist between 2 people living together who are planning on getting married and are leading busy lives. Warning bells should be going off in your head brother. If you don't like her actions now, how do you think you'll like them after you've been married for a few years?