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4meAndyou · F
Yes, you should. I know it is impossible for some men to be kind, or even considerate, and they really don't care if they hurt the women in their lives...but try to put the shoe on the other foot.
Try to think how YOU would feel if your girlfriend was always ogling other men, or obviously staring at them. Wouldn't it make you feel like she wasn't really interested in YOU? Or that you were not special? Or that you were tired of her and wanted to sample some other dishes?
I remember the 2nd ex-husband, father of my son...coming home one day from work, and announcing to me, as I sat there with his baby, that he saw a gorgeous woman as he was driving home, and he almost drove off the road. It wasn't enough for that particular jerk to have noticed another woman when I wasn't there. He had to come home and rub my nose in it.
With all the many things you can choose to be in this world...choose to be kind.
Try to think how YOU would feel if your girlfriend was always ogling other men, or obviously staring at them. Wouldn't it make you feel like she wasn't really interested in YOU? Or that you were not special? Or that you were tired of her and wanted to sample some other dishes?
I remember the 2nd ex-husband, father of my son...coming home one day from work, and announcing to me, as I sat there with his baby, that he saw a gorgeous woman as he was driving home, and he almost drove off the road. It wasn't enough for that particular jerk to have noticed another woman when I wasn't there. He had to come home and rub my nose in it.
With all the many things you can choose to be in this world...choose to be kind.
