Can you still...

Be struggling with divorcing your ex husband but be incredibly happy with your partner?
I told my friend it was difficult divorcing my ex and she questioned whether I should be with my current partner....

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Sunujing · 46-50, M

I went through this. You spent years with that person and it is only natural to have feelings for them that are positive mixed in with all the negative.

I had the additional layer of my ex having a legit personality disorder that I struggled to accept. I regularly needed to focus on staying in my rational mind rather than letting emotion take over.

That being said, I found a new person who is amazing. She altered my life in a very positive way and helped me stay focused and in my rational mind. I am not sure I would have survived the brutal divorce process which cost me $100K and took 6x longer than it should have driven by exes personality disorder.