can your girlfriend have a few guy friends to message only?

they only message as friends and I know there isn't nothing suspicious but I guess it's my insecurities..but at the same time I'm asking is it ok?

she tells me that they r all nothing compared to u.. she is a social person and she met them in her summer class

liking their insta photos and stuff?

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SW-User

It isn't really a big deal, tbh. But I can understand why it would make you uncomfortable. As adults, it's important to recognise when we're being toxic towards our partners, and when our insecurities are hurting people.

If she says they're just friends, they're probably just friends. It's a different story if they've interacted with each other in suggestive ways, or if they're crossing boundaries that most people would be uncomfortable with.

flamewolf454 · 26-30, M

@SW-User no I know she just talks and laughs with them via message only.. they are her class mates.. but yes insecurities I guess.