What do you think about women abusing men?

Why some men force themselves to stay in an unhappy marriage? Especially abusive ones? Such men are suffering in silence. They have nowhere to go because they are afraid to be a laughing stock.

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Torsten · 36-40, M

I was in one once and I would just take it. She never really could hurt me much physically and boy did she try, but I put up with it because well to be blunt, she was amazing in bed.

there isn't any help out there for men with this and the thing that annoys me over it is that if I ever would have defended myself, I would have been arrested for it. police will most always take the side of the female.

im not going to act like I was suffering though and all that shit because I was only with her because I was dealing with other things in my life and she distracted me

Spoiledbrat · F

If you would have defended yourself but hurting her more than she hurt you thst would be why. You can always defend yourself. @Torsten

Torsten · 36-40, M

@Spoiledbrat that's easy to say and doing that in the heat of the moment if defending yourself is two different things. If she hit me say 5 times and I pushed her back and by doing so she falls and hits her head, I would have been arrested. It would have been unintentional and under self defence but do you think she would just agree to that when police are over after she calls em. nah, she would make herself out to be victim and im screwed.
Men no matter what get screwed over in these type of situations when they are the abused