Why do I not stand a chance against other guys?

It seems like no matter how good of a personality I have and how much of a gentleman I am other men seem to get the woman I am interested in. And don’t tell me I have no game because that crap is for millennials!

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Budwick · 70-79, M

Don't panic Vulcan.
Just be you.
Do stuff you like to do.
Go places you enjoy.
Talk to and get to know the people that are doing and enjoying the things you are doing and enjoying.
Don't focus on finding 'the one'.
Focus on being you.
Ensure that what you are enjoying is good, worthy,etc.
I promise, you'll stumble across interesting and fun people along the way.
Who knows? Maybe, someone will appreciate you for who you are!
THAT'S the one you are interested in anyway.

Even if you never find her, you will have had a fun and prosperous adventure and met some nice people on the way!