Why do I not stand a chance against other guys?

It seems like no matter how good of a personality I have and how much of a gentleman I am other men seem to get the woman I am interested in. And don’t tell me I have no game because that crap is for millennials!

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ajent86 · 56-60, M

It’s early.

VulcanGalaxy · 26-30, M

@ajent86 what do you mean?

ajent86 · 56-60, M

A couple of things. 1, women your age who are for whatever reason attracted to bad asses often outgrow that. (Women reading this, sorry for stereotyping, but there’s a reason so many leading ladies in Hollywood go for the swashbuckler.)
2, you have encountered the tiniest fraction of the overall number of women you will know moving forward. If you’re in your early 20s you’re about to meet a hundred women, some of whom have already have their fill with (not my word, but) douches.
3, if you’re in your early 20s it’s unlikely that you yourself have peaked. Hit your stride being yourself, don’t be a douche, manage your oral hygiene, and things will happen. @VulcanGalaxy

VulcanGalaxy · 26-30, M

@ajent86 good point