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Question for the straight or bi women here... Do you prefer:

Poll - Total Votes: 11
An emotionally-stable man with his life together who's always there to help and support you.
A tortured soul who needs to be loved to blossom into the wonderful human being he really is inside.
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I always thought women preferred #1 but I read an article the other day and it got me thinking. It said:

[quote]Movies like Grease, Dirty Dancing, and She’s All That convinced women everywhere that you could easily turn a bad boy good. In fact, they convinced girls that the only boys worth being with were the ones who needed to be reformed in the first place. They taught us that if we’re just smart enough, interesting enough, and pretty enough, we could change that one guy who’s infamous for getting with every single girl.[/quote]

So maybe I had it wrong

(Full article if anyone is interested: https://www.bolde.com/8-movies-made-think-change-bad-boy/)
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SoFine · 46-50, F
1. We can't change him. ..he is what he is. ..

If he is kind, flexible and inventive, then maybe a little peep to see if he can go the distance.