If I find out that I’m not as loved as I think I am should I be hurt or stuck it up?

My boyfriend of four years has a letter hidden away (that I found and read) written last year August about how much he loves his gf before me and that he tried to love me but I’m not her and that kinda hurts me..

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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

I'm sorry that you're dealing with this. I mean talk to him about it. People write shitty things at times without realizing and they may not mean it too.

I know where you're coming from because I have been there myself but before you jump to any conclusion, Have a word with him about this. Then do whatever your heart desires to.

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

Moral of the story:
Don't read other peoples private mail!! 🤷‍♀️

Sadcat · 26-30, F

@Harriet03 thanks unfortunately we live together and his shit is everywhere..so it’s kinda hard not to pick up papers and read them when they are everywhere but please go off

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

@Sadcat Tell him not me?! You gotta train them..

ScarletWitch · 31-35, F

Drop him. No point being with someone who isnt in love with you.

SevenTierCrazyCake · F

You need to leave & go find someone who loves you completely. The thing is that if you stay it's all on you, you'll be wasting your own life. Do you want to be standing looking at yourself in the mirror in twenty years knowing that you did that to yourself?

assemblingaknob · 26-30, F

Whoop his ass and throw him out the window.
And his stuff.

Sadcat · 26-30, F

@assemblingaknob Tempting 😭

Julianking · M

Ditch the bum.

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Sadcat · 26-30, F

@SW-User I was happy I thought we we’re ok .....we are always together..and i feel like he will be mad because I saw his personal stuff

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ThoughtfulandSincere · 41-45, F

Aww this is heartbreaking dump him! Move on you’ll be okay. Maybe he tried using u as a crutch

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You want to stay with someone who doesn't love you?

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