Anyone wants to talk ?

I've recently broken off with my crush. I've been waiting for him for 3 years. From my stories, you've probably read about this Johnny and yes that dated 3 years ago. Fast forward now, my feelings were finally reciprocated. But unfortunately we can't be together because he has a girlfriend. So I left.

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WillaKissing · 56-60, M

Girl you deserve way more than that. The guy should not be reciprocating his feelings years post your dating; especially when he has another girlfriend. That sounds more like he wants a hook up than anything else to me. Plenty of guys will lie to past relationship girlfriends to scratch an itch they have, and won't leave their current woman for you.

Softylips · 26-30, F

@WillaKissing we never did anything. It was just feelings and although he says it isn't cheating to which I agree. We are not physically cheating but the very fact that he harbours feelings for me means that he's cheating the other girl's heart. I told him, there's only one spot for the girl. And no matter how much more I can pour my love out, nothings gonna change if he doesn't know what he wants.

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

@Softylips The fact you never did anything physical could be all the reasoning backing what I just shared with you in my first post. He wants to compare what he has with what you have to offer sexually in my book, especially if their was no sexual relations with you in the past.

At first I was going to argue what you replied with, but I agree to an extent. Here is how I see it. If you are boyfriend and girlfriend then you should not be thinking about other's even past GF's or BF's when you are with a new one. Say you married this guy down the road, and your sex life becomes routine to him. Would you consider it cheating if he contacts his past girlfriend expressing he may have feelings for her, and he is not sure if he made a mistake? I would, and I call it out and out disrespect and cheating. If your reaching out to a past love or a possible new love when with a Girlfriend currently that is cheating 100% so.

Anyway I agree; move on!