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women, do you feel it's the mans job to approach you if he likes you, or do you sometimes start the ball rolling?

just curious. i was wondering if i am unsuccessful because i don't initiate enough.
Magenta · F Best Comment
I'm a bit old fashioned and I prefer the man do the leading/pursuing. I'm not into chasing men and have never had to.
Magenta · F
Thank you for BA. @childcalledit

SweetMae · 70-79, F
Everyone is different. I don't think you pass up an opportunity because of perceived rules.
SW-User
@SweetMae :) Brilliant
SW-User
I'll initiate if I'm interested. Guys like to feel wanted too.
childcalledit · 31-35, T
@SW-User would you prefer he started it though?
SW-User
@childcalledit as long as he reciprocated the energy, doesn't matter to me.
SW-User
I don’t worry about it thank goodness 😅

But in my single days I definitely waited for the guy to initiate intimacy I was a very shy girl .... I’m still an introvert but I have my minx moments now grrrr 🐯 lol 🤭
Magenta · F
@SW-User Minx moments. Love it! I relate. 😏
SW-User
♥️😌🥂@Magenta
I like to be approached & pursued. Some women like to chase men. A lot of guys like that bc they can be lazy.
ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
Most of my relationships it's been kind of a gradual and mutual approaching of each other.
LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F
He gotta make the move if HE likes me lol
Extant1 · M
All in the rapport, no matter who starts it
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
I'm not into chasing men. Generally men approach me but I'm not looking for more than friendship these days. I have more man than I can handle some days.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@SW-User lol, what was one of the first things I told you about myself? That the collar in my pic is important to me and that I flirt but mean no harm. :) I repeat that often here.
SW-User
@Fungirlmmm I know. Just had to try out some classic lines from the past😆
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@SW-User lol you're funny.
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Some men naturally initiate interaction. Some have to be herded into it. Some just aren't interested.
helenS · 36-40, F
I usually start by asking a question about a painting or a book.
SW-User
I’m pretty outgoing. I’ll say hello.
LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F
@SW-User me too but the guy has to be open and confident to atleast say hello
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Do you mean online or rl??
childcalledit · 31-35, T

 
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