Who has used an online dating site?
Did you end up with a relationship that lasted more than a few months?
51-55, M
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WhatShallIcallyou · 51-55, M
I've been on eHarmony and I've been out on a few dates. I'm wondering if there is something in the mindset of those on the sites that lifts their benchmark so that they don't find anyone acceptable anymore.
I think its just like Tinder, in that you become de-sensitised in a way. All that choice makes you picky in the end. But you'll never really know what someones like anyway until you meet them face to face. You tend to just click with people in real life and you go by the feelings you get.
Considering its actually chemical, online dating isn't really a good path to take unless its just for fun in my opinion.
Considering its actually chemical, online dating isn't really a good path to take unless its just for fun in my opinion.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
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WhatShallIcallyou · 51-55, M
I had that problem for a while too. It helped to update my picture and get a women to look over my profile.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
Yes and yes, but probably not the kind of site or relationship you are talking about. --DW
WhatShallIcallyou · 51-55, M
well then, what kind of site and what kind of relationship?
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
Read my stories. Am sure my experience is not the point of this post. Answer is: lifestyle site/FWB (a man) for DH and myself.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M