My girlfriend is 36 and I'm 21. She'd like a baby but I just feel it's too early for me. Should we break up?

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indyjoe · 56-60, M

Have you told her this? Talk to her about this and that will give you both an idea of what the right thing to do is.

Endlessecho · 22-25, M

@indyjoe yeah we're talking about it. We're probably going to break up. I just feel a bit shit cause I don't have many friends in this city and it'll be lonely. But it seems best and I'll get through it.

Carissimi · F

@Endlessecho You are Wise. Loneliness should not be the reason for a long-term commitment, and bringing a child into the world. It’s a recipe for great unhappiness, and not fair to anyone, especially the child.