@SW-User sounds like what I’ve recently gone through.
Did you go “no contact”?
I recently decided, and he’s also trying to play the “silent treatment” game to see if I’d eventually cave (because I usually am the dummy that does). But I refuse to play his game any longer...
He’s really a sick individual, luckily I didn’t spend years with this miserable human hoping he’d change. There’s still time for me to emotionally detach, even though I can admit spending ample amounts of time and energy with a person for 5 months straight can still take a toll on someone, especially when I’ve made certain there was no one else. He was the only guy I’ve been seeing. For him? Not so much. He’s a whore. (Lies SOOOO much).