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Is it wrong to want a partners social media password to confirm infidelity? (Please read)

I’m pretty sure of the kinds of responses I’ll get anyway, however.... I do know that people are often very, VERY curious.

Not “curious” simply to be nosey but curious for that extra confirmation. Sometimes tangible evidence is necessary, especially when someone is continuously insulting your intelligence and gaslighting you to believe that what you’re saying and accusing them of just isn’t true.

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I have all reasons to believe he’s doing wrong because he’s very flirtatious with women even in my face, so I can imagine in private. I have all reasons to be suspicious.
He turns his phone face-down when we are together, if we are sleep together and I wake up and he’s using his phone, he quickly x’s out whatever he’s looking at....[/b]

I know the saying goes “if there’s no trust , it’s over already” and that itself is usually obvious at that point...however....

Is it wrong to want access to a partners social media messages to help you walk away for good?

I’m the kind of person that would walk away as soon as I see a message DM confirming his infidelity.

Sometimes we stay because we don’t have proof and often times we have to “believe” their word. But what if someone’s word just isn’t good enough because their actions don’t quite align?

I admit, I am that person guilty of wanting to acquire a Instagram password because I know it’s a gold mine. Everything he’s ever lied to me about is in that inbox...
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Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
It depends on what else is going on. When my wife and I started using social media, initially it was all out in the open, as time went by, my wife became more secretive about her time online. She would often wait till I was gone to use social media. I generally travel 3-4 days a week at least 3 weeks every month. I would call home and she wouldn't have time to talk to me but she would be online, becoming suspicious, I looked through her online history and found hidden social media accounts. Hidden emails and skype. As her online habit developed, her interest in me diminished. If I brought up desires or needs, her response was sarcastic, belittling of me. I was being a baby, I was demanding too much attention and needed to grow up. If so many things hadn't changed, I wouldn't have worried about it. For me, it would depend on the whole relationship, whether or not I felt a need to share passwords.