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And I've felt it through my life

'They love differently from us. Men enjoy happiness they feel , we can only enjoy happiness we give. They're not capable of devoting themselves exclusively to one person.'
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
That does not make every man the same. I devoted my life to one woman and unfortunately she chose to burn my life.

Both men and women are capable of the same thing.
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@Fernie I'd say experience with enough men. But as you say- wrong ones
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Triggerer Good. Learn from all this and identify the red flags.

There are good people out there and there is someone out there for you as well 🙂
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Triggerer there are a lot of bad men out there dear, but there are certain key things to look at

If you watch how a man treats people he doesn't want anything from, especially when he doesn't know you're watching, you will see if he is a decent or bad man

Some men are actually very faithful and loving, myself for instance

Like right now I'm only talking to a woman that probably isn't even going to date me, but until I give up or that possibility disappears, I'm not looking to pursue anyone else
raysam363 · 31-35, F
Can't speak for everyone, but I've noticed the opposite in my life.
Thunderstruck · 51-55, M
You'll need to learn to cook always remember less bitchin more kitchen and you'll be fine. Oh lots of sex too.
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@Thunderstruck Thanks. But I am sure I don't need this kind of a help. Because it's ignorant
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@Thunderstruck Tis you that needs help sunshine!
Thunderstruck · 51-55, M
@Adaydreambeliever As usual you're wrong
[quote]Men enjoy happiness they feel[/quote]

What does this mean?
Fernie · F
@Thunderstruck knuckle dragger
Thunderstruck · 51-55, M
@Fernie Hag
Fernie · F
@Thunderstruck that is the exact response I expected from you you moron...EVOLVE DUDE!!! You hate women cause no woman WANTS your ugly ass....I pity any sane woman who has anything to do with you...you're most likely hung like a hamster too
Montanaman · M
🙋Check please ☝️💞🥰
plungesponge · 41-45, M
That's why polygamy makes sense. lol
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@plungesponge That's reasonable. But I , as an individual, need one man that will be devoted to me and only me. As I will do the same.
AkAtSUki · F
@plungesponge thank you, sir! Finally a response that is logic based and not emotionally based.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Haha it's quite likely the current mode of dating will not survive another 100 years. It's not working out for the fertility of cultures that want to survive.

Having said that polygyny is a brutal system for males that don't make the grade, so it's unlikely that will be the replacement. I suspect it'll be some new form where robots are used for sexual gratification while governments use taxes to promote the idea that responsible citizens procreate
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Was that a quote from somewhere? I don't think it's true.. many men DO find it hard to be exclusive.. but not all, many wouldn't play around even if they could.. many men love their partner and wouldn't want to hurt her..

But, we have to accept that actually there are many women who prefer to play the field too..

I am an advocate of realising the differences between men and women.. but when it comes to love.. I am not that sure that they do love differently than we do
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@Adaydreambeliever From what I've experienced, this quote fits perfectly. The way I love will not be returned the same way
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@Triggerer Well, I wouldn't be so sure.. seriously.. you've a lot of life and a lot of love ahead of you.. I wouldn't be making any predictions yet :)
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@Adaydreambeliever I hope so. I didn't say I will give up. And hope kept me on this road of trying again. I will keep trying and I'll update after 30 years. If I'm still alive 😁
AkAtSUki · F
I think both parties can be happy.

TRIGGER ALERRT!!

It's just that we're different from men in many ways, biologically and psychologically.
For instance, men can have multiple wives and not get attached to just one, he can love all of them. Generally, women for the most part just want one man, too many men in her life will confuse her.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@AkAtSUki [quote]too many men in her life will confuse her.[/quote] lol speak for yourself! It's my ideal! If men supposedly cannot love as deeply as we can.. well, then we will need several men in the hope that we can get enough love from several :P I find it hard to see how a woman can be happy as one of several wives.. I've always figured, they must not like sex much.. and when you think about it.. that probably isn't that great for men either.. they get plenty of choice re several wives, but all of them probably not keen on sex and all probably only married the man because he was wealthy enough to have several wives.. so it's more an arrangement.. and to ensure your kids have status and/or someone to pay to raise them..
Fernie · F
@AkAtSUki your comments are getting more and more outrageous
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@Adaydreambeliever [quote]If men supposedly cannot love as deeply as we can.. well, then we will need several men in the hope that we can get enough love from several [/quote] I might as well try out this one. 😆5 men would do
Fernie · F
Nope...Women enjoy their own happiness as well as the happiness we GIVE!They are often one in the same... Where are you getting this wrong information? I do agree that monogamy is really difficult for so many males.
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@Fernie I have experienced it through last 6 years. Constantly. No exception. Maybe there's one in future that will be devoted to me only.
JimminyChristmas · 56-60, M
I have to disagree.

 
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