My ex wants to meet my fiancé “for our daughter’s safety.” Should I allow this?

He’s been upset about this relationship ever since I started dating. I don’t know how to get him to stop. My fiancé is a good guy and there’s nothing that my ex-husband would see in him that I haven’t already.

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Mindful · 56-60, F

Update typo: It’s not unrealistic for you to have a background check done for your ex.that should suffice. Also, say “I married you didn’t I?Are you still Hiding omething from me?” If your FIANCÉ objects on the face of sincerely being concerned for your daughters welfare and the sanity of a father, then I would be worried. No sane man would object.