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Why do men ask if you’ve had a boyfriend during the break up?

reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
he wants to know how attached you were, on one end of the spectrum you have people who after a break-up need time to heal, to mourn, to let go because their emotions were very deeply rooted while other break-up on friday and saturday are with someone else which hints that their love might be more superficial and based on serving their needs more than creating a bond.
Guitarist07 · 31-35, F
@reflectingmonkey so... he has feelings then? Otherwise it shouldn’t matter
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
@Guitarist07 he wonders how deep is your love (beegee song haha) but it doesnt necessarily mean that HIS feelings are sincere. he still might be an asshole, and it might be motivated more by jealousy and desire to control.
Guitarist07 · 31-35, F
@reflectingmonkey that’s weird. Cuz he does get jealous when he thinks I’m talking about another dude
They think u have cheated and you are breaking up for that reason.
Guitarist07 · 31-35, F
We already broke up. so I was a free bird. Able to do as I please. He’s back now and asks this @JustLikeGreta
htoad34 · 36-40, M
@Guitarist07 You broke up, now you are back together?
Tminus6453 · M
Either wants to know if you were cheating while together or wants to know if its really over between you two🤷‍♂️
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
because other partners often trigger the initiative to breakup. i think that’s pretty obvious.
do you mean the boyfriend who is breaking up with you is asking you if you have had a boyfriend?
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
they think you cheated on him and the other guy "stole" his girlfriend.
SW-User
To see if you have been there before
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
He wnatz hiz Muneyz bacKz Hunnz

 
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