Would you leave your partner if they told people about your fetish?

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My gf told her friends and her sister about my fetish. She knows i'm really insecure about it. But she did it anyway. I don't think i can properly process how betrayed i feel. Now i'm wondering if I should leave her.

I can maybe understand telling your sister, but she did'nt have to tell her friends, especially because I want that info to be PRIVATE!

Should i stay or should i go?

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Stevy · 46-50, M

Nah, it's not a big deal.

Badunk · 31-35, M

@Stevy how so?

Stevy · 46-50, M

@Badunk I feel if your embarrassed about your fetish, you shouldn't have that fetish. If not, it shouldn't be a big deal that anyone else knows what it is.

Badunk · 31-35, M

@Stevy Its a pregnancy fetish. We have explored it. But i wanted to keep it private and not have people know something so personal to me. I used to hate myself because of it and she knows that. She just betrayed my trust by telling a bunch of people. (Some i dont particularly like)

Not trying to direct any anger towards you btw just frustrated af.

Stevy · 46-50, M

@Badunk I hear you, you have a right to be upset. I have fetish's myself and I could care less if my GF told anyone. But that's just me.🤷‍♂️

Badunk · 31-35, M

@Stevy thanks man. I know its not a big deal to have a fetish like this. I just had a bunch of people kinkshame me at a party and i don't really want to go through that again.