Would you leave your partner if they told people about your fetish?

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My gf told her friends and her sister about my fetish. She knows i'm really insecure about it. But she did it anyway. I don't think i can properly process how betrayed i feel. Now i'm wondering if I should leave her.

I can maybe understand telling your sister, but she did'nt have to tell her friends, especially because I want that info to be PRIVATE!

Should i stay or should i go?

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Viper · M

Um, you expected women not to talk to each other?

What is your fetish?

If you want.it that privite, then you shouldn't of.told your GF (or anyone).

Badunk · 31-35, M

@Viper I have a pregnancy fetish. And she told me she wouldn't tell anyone. She lied.

Viper · M

@Badunk humans are social creatures... most can't help but share some of the time, especially if they're really tight with someone, something concerns them, or they get caught up in the moment.

People might be able to limit things to a small group of people but not completely tell no one.

But I think most women are going to talk about pregnancy and babies at some point, so I don't think your fetish is safe... especially when it's something only a woman's body can do.

Also remember, some girls might be scared off of that fetish, and dump you for it and she didn't/hasn't.

What you should do, depends on how you feel about her, outside of this one thing... how did you feel about her before finding out about this?

If you two truely like each other, I think y'all be able to move on past this without too much trouble.

Badunk · 31-35, M

@Viper she is controling, and has fits of rage. And I can't trust her anymore. Thanks for the reply.

Viper · M

@Badunk If she's controlling and you don't like it, especially with fits of rage, that.might only get word the deeper you get involved with the person.