I think I love my former professor

I think, I'm in love with my former professor. I'm 26 and he's 44, I have a boyfriend for 3 years now and he's married and got 2 boys. I don't want any relationship with him, but I can't stop thinking about him and keep googling him over and over. What to do?

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Northwest · M

You did not have a relationship with him, so there's nothing to "move on" from. If you're done with school, why would you have anything to do with him. On top of it, you also have a boyfriend.

You've been in a relationship for 3 years, but you're still crushing on your former professor. This means the current relationship doesn't do it for you, and the fair thing to do, is walk away from it, and focus on your life, not what the Professor is doing.