I think I love my former professor

I think, I'm in love with my former professor. I'm 26 and he's 44, I have a boyfriend for 3 years now and he's married and got 2 boys. I don't want any relationship with him, but I can't stop thinking about him and keep googling him over and over. What to do?

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nedkelly · 61-69, M

He will not leave his wife, move on and grow up

PhoebeJulia774 · 31-35, F

@nedkelly I know, I don't want any relationship, that's exactly my question, how to move on.

nedkelly · 61-69, M

@PhoebeJulia774 It will be very hard, but you have no option

johnny253 · 70-79, M

If you have a boyfriend of 3 yrs and he's married and has 2 boys, stop your relationship immediately. It's your personal responsibility. It's evil😠

IndridCold · 46-50, M

@johnny253 She's talking about the professor. Not her boyfriend. the PROFESSOR is married and has 2 boys.

PhoebeJulia774 · 31-35, F

@johnny253 I don't have a relationship with my professor and I don't want any, I'm just kind of crushing too much for him (thus the often googling...), and I don't know how to stop with thinking about having conversations with him....

Northwest · M

You did not have a relationship with him, so there's nothing to "move on" from. If you're done with school, why would you have anything to do with him. On top of it, you also have a boyfriend.

You've been in a relationship for 3 years, but you're still crushing on your former professor. This means the current relationship doesn't do it for you, and the fair thing to do, is walk away from it, and focus on your life, not what the Professor is doing.

xixgun · M

Move on

Temporallube · M

Get with your professor, and mess up your relationship with your boyfriend so you can be his young play thing, in his mediocre scholarly life.

Cliches are delicious 🤤

Mona86 · C

Control your urges as if you have nothing to lose if you mess with him, he has a family and a reputation you could potentially ruin

PhoebeJulia774 · 31-35, F

@Mona86 Yeah, I know, that's why I'm kind of trying to avoid him in real life, so that potentially no one could notice I maybe behave differently in front of him and would start gossiping...

IndridCold · 46-50, M

Be like my mom. Go watch Dirty Dancing and you'll forget all about everything else for a couple of hours.

luctoretemergo · 61-69, M

Act on your impulse.
Or not...

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