Has anyone been in a long relationship with a narcissit?

I feel like I have ptsd after spliting with him. If you know any real narcs you might understand why. Ive been watching a few videos on you tube which really hoghlighted how much he sucked me in. I feel empty and confused angry to. What can i do to get over this?

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drymer · 56-60, M

Sorry, I can't feel sympathy for you. You picked him, you accepted him, you gave him your love, you quenched his selfish ego. Was it that hard to realize he was a narcissist before you got into a relationship with him...? There are tons of really good guys out there, so it gets tiring to hear women always whining about the jerks they picked up instead... Sorry I guess I'm not in a good mood...

rottenrobi · 56-60, F

@drymer Wow... you think a narcissist is going to introduce himself as an asshole? He normally paints himself to be a great guy, who has his shit together..

Ciaotutti · F

@rottenrobi Dont I know it. He played the victim if I called him out on anything. The mind games were terrible. Subtle at first then obvious.

flowersindecember · F

@drymer just because you aren't in a good mood, doesn't mean you have to put the blame on her and act like an ass

Ciaotutti · F

@drymer I can tell your not educated on the subject...a small tip for you. Dont kick people when they are down unless you would like it to happen to you.

Ciaotutti · F

@flowersindecember Thank you thst meant a lot after feeling so shitty about my life 🤗 Thankyou

Ciaotutti · F

@rottenrobi so true they are eveything you want them yo be at the begining then they go to work destroying you. Empty vacuums sucking on finances energy they just use you full stop!

flowersindecember · F

@Ciaotutti of course 💜