Am I too old fashioned for thinking that its best for the man to ask out the woman.

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Female Equality, doesn't matter who asks who

Prefer traditional gender roles in dating.

I'm a guy and I'm excited for women to ask me out.

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Family debate and it seems like I'm too old school. I just feel it's best if the woman doesn't appear too forward and to allow the man to show some interest first. I know that times are different but I still think that guys should make the first move.

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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

It's not only old-fashioned, but it's kind of nonsensical too. What's the difference between the man asking vs. the woman? Who cares? What does it really change in terms of the date?

SW-User

@DearAmbellina2113 [quote]
What does it really change in terms of the date? [/quote]

Who pays💁🏾‍♂️, which is why i suspect many women take issue with asking men out.😂

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@SW-User If she can't pay, then she should just wait for him to ask her out I guess. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But most women these days have jobs and could easily pay.

SW-User

@DearAmbellina2113 Yes most women have jobs and paying shouldn't be an issue but, and i dont have real data for this, but it seems even though most women work now they still prefer men pay for dates.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@SW-User Yes you are certainly correct. Most women would prefer that the man pay on the first date. Although once we are together I'm exceptionally generous.