How do women flirt with men?

In the past, I have flirted by moving suggestively. I used to date a man who told me he was a leg man, so when he invited me to a dance, I made sure to cross my legs slowly, while facing him. Unfortunately, this often backfires. People get TOO interested and then if you change your mind, it's a problem.

Nowadays I am not into any funny business. I am just myself, and when I am around my good friend I spend most of my time trying to discourage him...😂