Would you eventually get irritated at your spouse or partner if?

They kinda sort claim to have some sort of anxiety which I believe to be true. I have really bad anxiety but I get up daily and take my licks. I do what I have to. What if my partner is so lazy and will go out to eat around people for food( mainly to go but some indoor restaurants if buffet), dosent work, ask for whatever items they want freely for his "business " that dosent make money, dosent leave the house except to eat but when 3 or 4 times yearly I ask him to accompany me to some kind of small gathering or event and he refuses. This pisses me off. I don't care if you dont like people. Suck it up.

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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

It sounds like you don't have anxiety.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@DearAmbellina2113 Well I generally dont like to let anyone in real life know but I've had it pretty bad all my life. From constantly having upset GI which after years of terrible suffering MD told me was likely stress.
Used to throw up before school on the side of the building.
I dont want to talk about me.I only want to point out that no matter what. I get up and do what needs to be done for my family, do whats right, support my husband. I don't care if it kills me so a few dinner parties which are actually freaking hard for me too is not too much to ask. I believe its necessary for a balanced life. He does not work. I do

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@REMsleep it sounds like he's not willing to push himself outside his comfort zone the way you do. That could be a dealbreaker. Talk to him about it.