How can I help my miserable partner?

My boyfriend is very unhappy. He's very jealous, insecure, his self esteem is non existent, jobless and paranoid. He's been putting crap in his head and as a result he takes it out on me. He drinks and smoke, he gets very verbally abusive once he's drunk.

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Girlyfriendcollecting · F

you can probably help him if he wants to change if he has no interest in changing his own life then you have no hope. it is not possible to change people against their will. I am so into psychologists because i have seen it do fantastic things to a person i keep haveing that hope.