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How can I help my miserable partner?

My boyfriend is very unhappy. He's very jealous, insecure, his self esteem is non existent, jobless and paranoid. He's been putting crap in his head and as a result he takes it out on me. He drinks and smoke, he gets very verbally abusive once he's drunk.
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assuming he is of similar age, he's not going to change

I was quite insecure / jealous when I was younger..I grew out of it. It is just destructive and will end your relationship.

Do you love him? Have you cheated on him? Do you keep secrets from him?